Prior to working with Bek, I was experiencing extreme shame, regret, unworthiness, self- blame and I was extremely lost. I was diagnosed with HSV-2 in January 2022. I did not know what to believe, where to seek help or how to help myself. I felt alone, and waking up every day began to feel like a burden. I felt as if I was waking up to a nightmare every single day. I would cry every day. I would cry myself to sleep, I would wake up in the middle of the night and cry at the thought of my diagnosis. I would go about my day with a constant knot in my throat, obsessing over my diagnosis. Anything and everything reminded me of my diagnosis. I could not look in the mirror. I stopped listening the music I normally listened to. I withdrew from people because I did not want them to see the pain that I was in. I stopped being me and I felt that it was that moment where something inside of me died. I realized I needed to seek help as soon as possible.
I found Bek on Youtube. I felt that I could relate to everything she said in her video. I then found her on Instagram and became obsessed with her content. I felt that she would be able to help me overcome this phase.I related to absolutely everything she had to say. Prior to enrolling with Bek, I also had an appointment with a sexual health therapist. However, something inside of me told me that Bek would be the better match for me. I took the leap of faith and I am happy I did.
Bek helped me challenge the beliefs I created about myself after being diagnosed with HSV2. Bek taught me how to better approach my limiting beliefs and also helped me understand why they kept reappearing in my life. Bek helped me learn how to forgive and accept myself, and helped me feel “normal” again.
Bek is always there for you. Bek understands how to help because she has been there. Bek allows you to express yourself, and will not let you go through any of it alone. Bek allows you to be vulnerable while also providing you the tools and guidance to become empowered and break through.
During my time with Bek, I did the “scary” thing. I disclosed my diagnosis and I am happy I was able to do it while working with Bek, because I was able to talk about my experience and learn from it. I also started dating again, something I did not believe I would do so soon. I learned so much about myself and about others through these experiences.
Bek has a genuine interest in her clients and helping them break through whatever situation they may be facing. Bek knows how to provide space for clients to express themselves while still being efficient with her coaching. Bek is an excellent representation of someone who has experienced break through with the herpes virus, which is why I believe she is an amazing coach. Bek allows you to feel heard and supported, while also challenging you and the beliefs you have created.
As someone who is extremely stubborn and constantly challenging what I am told, I am impressed with Bek’s ability to support me. Although at times I felt like a broken record, constantly reverting to old beliefs and emotions, Bek knew how to meet my needs, and never shamed me or demonstrated any hostile or negative behavior. Bek not only helped me with my diagnosis, but I learned so much about other areas of my life.